What is Holding you Back?


Many (probably most) affiliate marketers share a common dream when they get into the business – quitting their day jobs and making affiliate marketing into a career.  Some may have more modest goals of creating a solid stream of recurring revenue every month to supplement their regular income.  But, whatever the goal, many affiliates also share another common trait.  They haven’t achieved those goals.  There are plenty of reasons why an affiliate marketing business may not have become as successful as possible.  But, I think that many of those reasons can fall into four categories that can create barriers to achieving success.

Fear of Failure
Fear holds us back from doing many things we want to do in life.  Some fears are helpful (don’t get too close to the angry rattlesnake when you are out hiking), but others are really just our brains trying to help us avoid things that seem momentarily unpleasant.  Failure is definitely an uncomfortable experience for most people and we often try to avoid doing things that could make us uncomfortable.  But, those who achieve true success in almost any endeavor (affiliate marketing, baseball, acting, music, or pretty much anything else) recognize that failure is a part of reaching their goals.  Failures are often the result you encounter when you push yourself beyond your current limits.  If you never attempt anything that has a risk of failure, then you will likely achieve very little.

The fear of failure may be the single biggest factor holding many people back from achieving their goals.  It isn’t an easy barrier to overcome, or everyone would do it.  But, if you want to stand out from the crowd and build the affiliate marketing career that you dream about, you must learn to embrace failure.  The key is to learn from every failure and build on that knowledge to keep moving your business toward eventual success.

Refusal to take Control
It is easy to blame outside factors for the fact that your business hasn’t taken off the way you wanted.  In fact, it is probably a basic part of human nature to want to focus on outside factors that are beyond your control when things don’t go your way.  But, one common trait you will find among successful entrepreneurs is that they focus on taking control of their situations rather than being at the mercy of outside forces.  When things go wrong, they look for solutions, not excuses.  Sure, things happen that you can’t control (your server goes down, you lose your best offer, etc.) but successful affiliate marketers look for ways to meet these challenges head-on and make sure they are less impacted by them in the future.  Remember that you are the only one who is responsible for achieving your goals.  There will always be hurdles and barriers thrown in your way.  Your job is to find ways to overcome them and make them less of a factor in the future.  This isn’t always easy.  But, if success in affiliate marketing was easy, everyone would be getting rich online.

Not Enough Motivation
Simply having a great vision of what you want to achieve isn’t going to get you anywhere.  You actually have to be motivated to put in the time and effort to achieve your goals.  Millions of kids dream of playing in the NBA, NFL, or other professional sports league.  They love playing baseball or soccer, and think it would be amazing to get paid to play their favorite sport.  But, to actually make it to the highest level of a professional sport, you need to put in an incredible amount of time and effort perfecting your skills.  Sure, there are certain physical tools that give some people a leg up, but just relying on natural physical abilities will only get you so far.  Successful pro athletes work incredibly hard on improving their skills with constant, deliberate practice to ingrain certain habits in their swing or jump shot.  While playing the game may be fun, hour-after-hour, day-after-day, month-after-month, of working on a specific skill isn’t likely to meet anyone’s definition of fun.  But, these players want to achieve success so badly that they will put in this kind of effort to reach their goals.  The question is, how motivated are you to achieve your goals?  Everyone wants to be rich, work on their own terms, and enjoy the lifestyle of their choice.  But, only a few people are truly motivated enough to do what it takes to get there.

There is Always Tomorrow
One last barrier that keeps many people from succeeding is a lack of urgency.  Everyone is busy and it is very easy to put things off until tomorrow.  If everyone who ever wanted to try affiliate marketing actually did it, I can’t even imagine how many millions of affiliate marketers there would be.  But, the fact is that most people will talk about it, but never do anything.  I’m sure we are all guilty of this at one point or another.  We talk about something we want to do, whether it is building an online business, learning to snowboard, writing a book, learning a foreign language, or any other goal we would like to achieve.  But, most of these goals simply fall by the wayside and never get accomplished because we never go beyond thinking about it.

The first and most fundamental step to success in affiliate marketing is actually doing something.  Stop talking about that website you want to build and start building it.  Don’t just think about running an offer, actually run it.  The one thing that all successful affiliates have in common is that they took the step to turn their goals into reality.  Starting is no guarantee of success, but not ever starting is an absolute guarantee that you won’t succeed.

  • AffMarketer

    Excellent post…

  • Anonymous

    How does one get motivation if they don’t have it?

  • Andy

    You speak the truth, Tom. Align your creatives, traffic sources and offers and you will make money as an affiliate.

  • Denis Kampl

    Have to say very much true…sadly :)

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Hey Lorenzo – so true. Motivation really does need to come from within. I suppose something like losing your day job could provide someone with more motivation to make focus on their affiliate marketing business. At the end of the day you are either self-motivated or you aren’t. But, maybe getting someone to really think about it can help them find that internal drive.

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Thanks Andy.

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Thanks – glad you enjoyed the article.

  • badger

    Excellent article. I have worked like a little beaver on my sites but I must not have chosen the right niches. Oh well, I WILL get it right.

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Hey badger – it takes time. Without knowing more about your sites and the niches you are focusing on it is hard to give a lot of specific advice. But, I would make sure you are really analyzing your results and learning something from every campaign that you can incorporate into your next one.

  • Maurice

    Brilliant. So you’re saying success is actually self generated: Perseverance (of self), Management (of self), Investment (of self), Actions (of self).

    “- Failures are often the result you encounter when you push yourself beyond your current limits.
    - they focus on taking control of their situations rather than being at the mercy of outside forces.
    - put in the time and effort to achieve your goals.
    - actually doing something.”

    Thanks so much.

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Well said Maurice.

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Hey Denis – Thanks for the coment. I think that with few exceptions (we would all love to win the lottery) real success is hard earned. But, it is certainly attainable in our business. I know so many successful affiliates who didn’t bring any special knowledge or skills to the table when they started out. They just were willing to put in the effort and really focus on achieving their goals. All of the barriers I mention above can be overcome if you want it badly enough (which would suggest that you have already gotten past the motivation issue).

  • http://www.patioandhomeimprovementdesign.com Damon D’Amico

    That’s a great article. It’s all tso true. I like the motivational part most of all. I could always use more motivation to get to the top! Thanks for that.
    Damon D. http://www.patioandhomeimprovementdesign.com

  • Mason

    Mr. Green,

    As a successful marketer I’d think you would know what motivates people to do something. Use your sales knowledge on yourself :)

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Hi Damon – glad you enjoyed the post!

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Hey Mason,

    I hear what you’re saying, but I think that Mr. Green makes a good point. It is one thing to motivate someone to take a one-time action (something we as marketers know how to do), but being motivated to take on a commitment as involved and potentially long-term as a new career really does need to come from within. It is one thing to get someone excited about something like affiliate marketing, but they really need to find their own internal motivation to stick with it over time.

  • chineme

    Brilliant article! Is it ok for me to repost it on my blog? I’ll use your trackback URL. (my blog is at http://internetmarketingviews.com)

  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Absolutely. Glad you liked the article!

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  • http://www.affiliate.com/blog Tom Wozniak

    Thanks! Glad it made an impact.

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